Tackle Anger with Budha's Way

I have read  a motivating story from the Buddha’s life about how to handle your own anger. 

Angry Bharadvaja approached the Buddha  and abused and hated him with harsh, foul words.

When he had finished speaking, the Buddha said to him: “What do you think, Bharadvaja? Do your friends and relatives, as well as guests come to visit you?”

“Sometimes they come to visit, Master”
“Do you then offer them some food or a meal or a snack?”
“Sometimes I do, Master.”
“But if they do not accept it from you, then to whom does the food belong to?”
“If they do not accept it from me, then the food still belongs to us.”
“So too, Bharadvaja, we – who do not neglect anyone, who do not scold anyone, who do not bar against anyone – refuse to accept from you the abuse and scolding and outburst you let loose at us. It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja! It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja!
“Bharadvaja, one who abuses his own abuser, who scolds the one who scolds him, who rails against the one who rails at him – he is said to take of the meal. But we do not take of your meal. It still belongs to you, Bhardvaja! It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja!”

Morale of the Story ---

… One who react with an angry man with anger
Thereby makes things bad for himself.
Not reacting an angry man with anger,
One wins a combat tough to WIN…

After this precious discussion with Lord Budha, Bharadvaja changed and becomes a monk, with Buddha’s guidance achieves Complete awakening. 

Source -  SN VII.2, tr. Bhikkhu Bodhi

Thought - Sometime Criticise or Sometime Accepted

As I have written about Companion, one of my friend seriously criticized over it, I said it is fine that everyone should not accept my Thought. 

When the Thought is not accepted then only in realistic view it is processed that you thought over it and now you are taking as it is or you are opposing it.

Every thought has this process whether we take it or we leave it.  There are really 60,000 thoughts of the day, a big time process for any software.  Really but we think on some subjects repeatedly, so we might not understand whether this happened with us.

This blog is sheer compliment to my life, cause 4 years back, it was "EUREKA, EUREKA" for me when I wrote one blog shown to my friends and they appreciate the effort.

Then I wrote about our Alumni meeting and that was turnaround and got very much support from my friends who forced me to keep writing. I am highly obliged to my all close friends and supporters and readers. 

As this process is going on Thought Process will give me a lot Love, Encouragement and indeed Motivation to keep writing.

THANK YOU ALL OF YOU whoever touched my LIFE....

My Companion

Companion is a word we call lot of times, who is your real companion, your spouse, your friends, your family.  What exactly it is nothing but a ILLUSION.

I mean there is one real companion who is there with you right from your birth till your last breath. I always believe we are in company of God you may call it anything as per your religion.  Still he exist with you from the day ONE, we forget all this and play all around.

Where is he, i am not interested to answer this... cause this is difficult to answer..

He is with me as I call him SAKHA or real manner Companion, he never run away from you.  Just ask for help he is there.  When we run away from problems aka Challenges then so many times he come back to us and ask us to go back and face the reality not the way it is, the way he look at it.

Oh my dear Companion be with me and I would like to be with you.....

WANNA GROW UP ONCE AGAIN

It was pleasant when Monsoon gets starts....
My Friend was yesterday reminding our good old school days.  That our School use to get started by 4th June.  What was our condition, how we were scared of to go back to school.

Nowadays Schools are also carrying number of utilities and there is learning while having FUN.  We use to think why we were not the part of this type of Life.  See Competition was there and even today it is with good PACE. 

Think differently or more creative it was not our lessons.  Our Lessons was think the way we are teaching to you.  Why thinking out of the BOX was always a Crime and need to be ready for any sort punishment.  Teachers were thinking those days "HUM KARE SO KAYADA". Now conditions are more pleasant on treatment side, still study burden is the same and today's children, I always say 2000 babies are more efficient than ours.  As they are able to handle mobiles, computers, latest technology. 

I always feel we should be very much in the PRESENT.  Still sometimes my mind also fled and go in dump places where it should not be.

Schools are about to OPEN, all dear parents including us - me and my wife are behind all SHOPPING to complete for schools.

Oh dear....
GIVE ME SOME SUNSHINE,
GIVE ME SOME RAIN
GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE
WANNA GROW UP ONCE AGAIN - source - 3Idiots Song....

Interesting Facts said by GALIB

I was watching FB page and I found something easy for the life, LIFE would be so easy when we follow what MIRZA GALIB says here.

When we commit mistakes we say simple Sorry.... whether it is from Heart. When we do so, we might be very much relaxed not feeling guilty.  
Secondly most of the time we get angry on small and silly mistakes of colleagues, family members, our small kids.  We should FORGIVE them, one of my colleague told me once why to use word Forgive, are you GOD....

I must say Forgive is right word to use as to make our Life more SIMPLE and B E A UTIFUL.

This is important....
Day 2 to be contd....

KAHI DOOR JAB DIN DHAL JAYE

I was just detached with what I use to write and express my thoughts, and suddenly I came back and found.  Why I was not here, comon....

Life is all about facing every moment with JOY and Vigor.

I would like to come back and share my Thoughts with my lovely blog started in way back in June 2008.  Serious concern is all about Beautiful Life what we spend....

Enjoy the Moment and Invest towards your Life....

Dekhiye yeh sham bhi aa gayi 
Us pyare se Din ke Baad
Jate hue isss lamhe ke sath 

JIYO SHAAN SE.....