A Moment in Life

One of my colleague always say that we should get one Hit (Zatkha) will be fine, I feel that it is not always the case, as sometimes or more over so many times people tend to forget the conditions.

That's why I always believe that we should be keep own Head on own Shoulder and it will able to find the joy of this very PRESENT moment. I quote many times to my friends that small cup of Tea / Coffee can be enjoyed if you take it with intense joy. It is not simple and even it is not that difficult. How you look at it.

While driving a Car we do find some good places to watch, we hardly wait for such conditions cause our appointments and our task-to-do do not allow us to do that.

Sun-Rise and Sun-Set we think that they are entirely dependent upon Hill station or relax days.  Every day mother nature showing us the great art of existence, we the one who got strictly trained to watch on one single thing and loose everything what is nature showing to us every moment.

Just wake up early and see tomorrow Sun-rise will find new Life with New Zeal.  Life is nothing to do with gone roads, gone moments, gone life. It is just NOW. Enjoy the work, cause energy will flow differently.

Life is Changing

Today is Makar Sakranti, Sun is changing today its process. Till today there was small days and big nights. Now today onwards it would be changing to Big days and small nights.

Change is everywhere before we use to meet and share our feelings in Tilgul. Then came email fad we use to send greetings on emails, then came Mobile phone and the whole life changed. We use to call and greet and then started sending SMS and using Orkut. Now we are at Whatsapp and Facebook. See where we reached today... Life is changing...

New Year... New Resolutions... New Ways to Work

It is a New Year, we use to review in the month of December, how was this Year gone.. Some Plus and some Minus is always there in the year. How it could be sum it up..

When we look at all those 365 days and what we found.. a moment what we lived. is it that so..

Life is a Present.. This very moment is Life. 

Tackle Anger with Budha's Way

I have read  a motivating story from the Buddha’s life about how to handle your own anger. 

Angry Bharadvaja approached the Buddha  and abused and hated him with harsh, foul words.

When he had finished speaking, the Buddha said to him: “What do you think, Bharadvaja? Do your friends and relatives, as well as guests come to visit you?”

“Sometimes they come to visit, Master”
“Do you then offer them some food or a meal or a snack?”
“Sometimes I do, Master.”
“But if they do not accept it from you, then to whom does the food belong to?”
“If they do not accept it from me, then the food still belongs to us.”
“So too, Bharadvaja, we – who do not neglect anyone, who do not scold anyone, who do not bar against anyone – refuse to accept from you the abuse and scolding and outburst you let loose at us. It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja! It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja!
“Bharadvaja, one who abuses his own abuser, who scolds the one who scolds him, who rails against the one who rails at him – he is said to take of the meal. But we do not take of your meal. It still belongs to you, Bhardvaja! It still belongs to you, Bharadvaja!”

Morale of the Story ---

… One who react with an angry man with anger
Thereby makes things bad for himself.
Not reacting an angry man with anger,
One wins a combat tough to WIN…

After this precious discussion with Lord Budha, Bharadvaja changed and becomes a monk, with Buddha’s guidance achieves Complete awakening. 

Source -  SN VII.2, tr. Bhikkhu Bodhi

Thought - Sometime Criticise or Sometime Accepted

As I have written about Companion, one of my friend seriously criticized over it, I said it is fine that everyone should not accept my Thought. 

When the Thought is not accepted then only in realistic view it is processed that you thought over it and now you are taking as it is or you are opposing it.

Every thought has this process whether we take it or we leave it.  There are really 60,000 thoughts of the day, a big time process for any software.  Really but we think on some subjects repeatedly, so we might not understand whether this happened with us.

This blog is sheer compliment to my life, cause 4 years back, it was "EUREKA, EUREKA" for me when I wrote one blog shown to my friends and they appreciate the effort.

Then I wrote about our Alumni meeting and that was turnaround and got very much support from my friends who forced me to keep writing. I am highly obliged to my all close friends and supporters and readers. 

As this process is going on Thought Process will give me a lot Love, Encouragement and indeed Motivation to keep writing.

THANK YOU ALL OF YOU whoever touched my LIFE....

My Companion

Companion is a word we call lot of times, who is your real companion, your spouse, your friends, your family.  What exactly it is nothing but a ILLUSION.

I mean there is one real companion who is there with you right from your birth till your last breath. I always believe we are in company of God you may call it anything as per your religion.  Still he exist with you from the day ONE, we forget all this and play all around.

Where is he, i am not interested to answer this... cause this is difficult to answer..

He is with me as I call him SAKHA or real manner Companion, he never run away from you.  Just ask for help he is there.  When we run away from problems aka Challenges then so many times he come back to us and ask us to go back and face the reality not the way it is, the way he look at it.

Oh my dear Companion be with me and I would like to be with you.....

WANNA GROW UP ONCE AGAIN

It was pleasant when Monsoon gets starts....
My Friend was yesterday reminding our good old school days.  That our School use to get started by 4th June.  What was our condition, how we were scared of to go back to school.

Nowadays Schools are also carrying number of utilities and there is learning while having FUN.  We use to think why we were not the part of this type of Life.  See Competition was there and even today it is with good PACE. 

Think differently or more creative it was not our lessons.  Our Lessons was think the way we are teaching to you.  Why thinking out of the BOX was always a Crime and need to be ready for any sort punishment.  Teachers were thinking those days "HUM KARE SO KAYADA". Now conditions are more pleasant on treatment side, still study burden is the same and today's children, I always say 2000 babies are more efficient than ours.  As they are able to handle mobiles, computers, latest technology. 

I always feel we should be very much in the PRESENT.  Still sometimes my mind also fled and go in dump places where it should not be.

Schools are about to OPEN, all dear parents including us - me and my wife are behind all SHOPPING to complete for schools.

Oh dear....
GIVE ME SOME SUNSHINE,
GIVE ME SOME RAIN
GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE
WANNA GROW UP ONCE AGAIN - source - 3Idiots Song....